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Sandra Bullockis opening up about her experience parenting two Black children.

In an exclusive clip from Wednesday’s episode ofRed Table Talk, the 57-year-old actress sits down withWillow Smith,Jada Pinkett Smithand her mother,Adrienne Banfield-Norris, for a candid conversation about motherhood, where she admits that she “sometimes” wishes she and her kids had the same skin color.

Bullock announced in 2010 that sheadopted Louiswhen he was 3½ months old and she is also mom to daughterLaila, 8, whom she welcomed via adoption in 2015.

“To say that I wish our skins matched, sometimes I do. Because then it would be easier on how people approach us,” Bullock, whose latest movieThe Unforgivableis out Dec. 10, explains. “And I have the same feelings as a woman with brown skin being her babies or a white woman with white babies.”

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“It’s the mother-child dynamic,” Willow adds. “There is no color.”

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“Maybe one day that will go away,” theBlind Sidestar replies. “Maybe one day we will be able to see with different eyes.”

Sandra Bullock and her daughter Laila.Red Table Talk

Sandra Bullock Red Table Talk

“I’m just the mom,” she said of how her kids view her. “When I’m gone, I’m missed, when I’m there, I’m annoying, and that’s exactly the way it should be.”

When asked if her kids think she’s cool, theSpeedstar immediately answered, “No, not at all. Not unless I bring home some kind of treat. Last night I came home with donuts. I was so incredibly cool at that moment!”

“I love who they are,” she continued. “Every day I get to see who they are. I am one of the lucky individuals that gets to be around my children all the time and see who they get to grow up and be. And who they’re growing up to be, I couldn’t be more proud of.”

Tune in for an all-new episode ofRed Table TalkWednesday at 9 a.m. PT / 12 p.m. ET on Facebook Watch.

source: people.com